In Parenting tool #1, we covered how kids should be doing a chore a day, and how this leads to being a good household citizen. Now lets explore consequences– when kids are not meeting mom and dad’s expectations. Expectations are the behaviors we consciously have of our kids. You will be polite, you will push yourContinue reading “Children & Chores”
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Children and chores = making good citizens
I’ve been mother and a psychologist for 22 years. I used to be caught over-thinking, over-analyzing and trying to full-proof my son’s emotional life before I would take action. I’d over-process with my weary husband about the effects of discipline and influence over everything–regarding my son’s self esteem. In therapy sessions, I’m often asked toContinue reading “Children and chores = making good citizens”
Guiding young children with “3 Tickets”
We love our children. The greatest act of generosity is showering our children with with attention, soothing, and love. And yet, loving a child doesn’t mean giving into all of their whims. Often, to love them is to bring out the best in them, to teach them to understand what is difficult. Does your young childContinue reading “Guiding young children with “3 Tickets””
Laurel Holmes, ABs, LMHC 